Failure
is an important fact of life; more you avoid confronting and analysing it, more
it would shadow your life and more your feel haunted.
Often
there are simple reasons that halt our way to success; however, by avoiding
them we can translate our failure into a success.
You
excessively look at other people
It is
good to look around and, adopt and get inspired with fantastic things people
are doing. During the process people generally ignore a fact that we are born
with different abilities and talents. If success comes to someone by operating
in a certain way; the same recipe can not be fruitful for every one.
It is
mandatory to recognise what things you are good at and invest your best efforts
where you can make a considerable difference.
You
don’t look at the big picture
One
reason you are not successful is your failure to visualize entire scheme of
things. More often you are content with surface knowledge and don’t make any
effort to dig deep in order to understand what lies back and what comes next.
Key connections and links vital to your success fall short of your
consideration and you make decisions on the basis of insufficient knowledge and
information with high vulnerability to failure.
You
are reactive
You
are not proactive and unnecessarily delay things. Your habit to linger on and keep
things pending till the last moment left you with very limited options in the end. This
leaves you in a state where you are not master of your fate and your
environment and circumstances largely dictate what you would be.
With proactive
approach you are in a great position to affect your environment and dictate
your circumstances in your way even under extremely harsh conditions. To change
a mindset from a reactive to proactive approach is fundamental to end a series
of failure in your life and walk on a road to success.
You
not ready to leave your comfort zone
You
are not willing to challenge yourself by posing new questions and putting up
new challenges. More you stick to your comfort zone, less you will learn skills
required for success and more likely your efforts will end up in a failure.
You do wrong
calculations
Many
people get failed simply for the reason of making poor calculations. You miss
something vital in your equation and consequently, you don’t get accurate
answer.
If you fail and an often analysis shows poor calculation responsible
for your failure, revisit your underlying equation. Discuss it with your friends,
seek advice from experts and benchmark with others to identify what leads you
to end up with faulty calculations.
You set
ambitious targets
Another
possible reason for your failure may lay in the way you set your goals and
targets. Rather than setting realistic goals and moving forward step-by-step
where you can keep track of your progress, you made ambitiously high targets.
In order
to turn failure into success, ambitious people need to carve out a
step-by-step approach where accomplishment of a step informs the set of
decisions made at next step. With small
gains and accomplishments eventually you achieve your larger goal successfully.
You are inconsistent
You focus on several things at a time. You pursuit something for a while, then you lose interest in it and your attention is switched. Lack of consistency cripples your ability to achieve your targets. People with consistency problem should learn how to concentrate on their goals; failing to focus on few things will keep hurting their prospects of success.
You have too many choices
Having too many opportunities is generally thought as good; however possibility of several choices can divert a person’s attention from one thing to another. For example, a person sets a target for himself, however on the course of accomplishing that task when there appears certain difficulties, he/she starts finding other options more lucrative or suitable. Indecisiveness and lack of focus characterizes their all efforts and what they end up is stark failure.
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