Life is a precious blessing that we get only
once. Success and failure are two important aspects that characterize our lives
to varying degrees. Some people are very successful while others make failure
stories. The important point here to understand is one should not lose heart
with a failure in studies, sports or professional life; failure is a mere
set-back not the end of everything.
More importantly, people who are successful
should not attribute success entirely to their talent, genius and efforts because
this will direct their mind excessively to look inside and with this they may
lose sight of important clues and factors in the external environment vital to
interruption free and smooth progression.
People with a mindset to criticize themselves for everything wrong that
happens to them; do a least favour to themselves. It may shatter their
self-confidence and cripple their ability to objectively analyze the underlying
reasons of the failure; depriving them from laying down the foundation for
future achievements and wins.
On the worst, depression that failure cause may
lead people to build an extreme negative image of self and in some cases, they
end up with terminating their lives.
As In case of
success, it is not useful to give all credit to yourself equally vital is
not to blame entirely yourself in case of a loss or defeat.
After missing or failing to capitalize on one
opportunity, it is likely that you may click with the other one that come to
your way allowing to turn your failure into a success story.
It is not
unfortunate to get failed as many people believe, rather failure to analyse the
underlying reasons of a defeat or loss is actually unfortunate. If one can identify
why his or her efforts ended up with unwanted consequences, it is blessing in
the disguise of failure.
Important message here is don't curse and repent of your failure rather analyse and understand what prevented your success. With such understanding and insight when you initiate a new effort, it is more likely that you can end up with desired outcome.
Under depression
some people go too far to end their lives. But when you cut the cord of your
life it is like you have quitted the field and accepted an immortal loss.
Especially, here is a message to youth; failure in exams or life is not end of
everything, encourage yourself and keep on trying after failure that what life all about is.
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